on love and relationships

met up with dijun today. come to think of it, she's never been in my class before. but she's one of those friendly and easy to get along with type of person. someone who makes you feel comfortable with and a nice companion to chat with.

eewen and her came by my room today, and we had a fun time chatting with mingyan and discovering that my webcam actually works!! yup...heh..will be going up to visit mingyan at cambridge on friday...sooooo exciting!! heh..and maybe we'll get to do some punting too!

tried the webcam with t-chien in singapore and it worked too!! woohoo!! haha...imagine my glee!! haha..yup yup.. t-chien says i am fatter!!! ahhhh!!! i know that too..maybe that's why my costume ripped huh..haha..hai..all the chocolate...not good not good..must cut down liao...

anyway..highlight of the day, 5 out of the 8 futurecops were online today and we had a great mass chat session!!! shan shan, charmain and wansin>>>> ni men pao qu na li?!?!? it's been so long since we had a group chat..actually, we never had a grp chat before..this is the FIRST..haha..and how fun to just catch up with everybody and talk crap...just as in secondary sch days..

as usual..girl talk will always come round to how everybody is doing in their 'love lives' and coping with admirers...haha..quite funny when we talk abt it..and then there are the 'what if' questions....and the 'jiang lai' questions. and since it's the holidays for some of us now, thought i'll just share some pts that were raised..but of course...names will be kept confidential here.

i quote:
'are you someone who treats marriage as a formality? how's it differnt to cohabiting?'
'ultilmately, marriage is intrinsically formalities, customary' '50% of marriages end up in divorce these days, so it no longer provides security'
'cos sometimes it's only after marraige that you start to discover flaws'
'trying to compromise and embracing his flaws cos of love..is that feasible? after all, we are human.'
'would you marry the person you love, or the person who loves you assuming they are diff pple?'
'in our lives, we meet many pple that we can develop a relationship with but don't always meet them at the right time, some you fall in love with but not all you're meant to keep, and those that you've loved, but never been with, they will always seem more perfect, cos you never find out their flaws, cos you will only remember them as wat they seem to you, which mostly is more perfect than reality'
'does time really chong dan yi qie?'
'relationships have to be actively maintained, then lao le cai ke yi bao chi en ai'
'is it possible to like 2 pple equally at the same time?'